Taking The Leap: How Taking The First Steps Can Lead To Success

Inspiration By Fiona Apaw Published on March 4

Starting my apprenticeship applications was initially overwhelming. Even today, while there are more resources and advice available, as an aspiring apprentice you may feel out of your depth, unsure about how to stand out but one thing I have learned is that success often lies in making the first steps no matter how small.

Three Hard Truths I Learned Along the Way

1: Becoming comfortable with being the first in the room

‘There are over 8 billion people on this planet, and you can still be the only black person at an event’ is something I know too well. People of colour, particularly black women, are underrepresented in several fields, so I have had to fight against imposter syndrome but overtime I’ve learned to embrace my background and use it to fuel my confidence. I’ve come to realise that my perspective is valuable, and though I’m still working on fully embracing this mindset, it’s essential for paving the way—not just for ourselves but for those who will follow.

2. Accepting That Not All Efforts Will Yield Immediate Results & Persevering Anyway

I applied to over 50 apprenticeships, with some companies rejecting me at the final stage or not even getting back at all. As someone who has only applied for apprenticeships, there was no back up plan to fall on so it was an incredibly stressful time for me, especially as exams drew closer, but my persistence paid off - I secured two apprenticeship offers in the end. Not every effort will bear fruit, but each application, interview and experience will teach you more about yourself and can be used to help you improve. 

3. Pushing Myself Out Of My Comfort Zone

Naturally, I’m a rather reserved person around strangers so pushing myself to attend more networking events and work experience programmes was not easy. However, attending helped me to create better connections and meet incredible people whose advice I find invaluable and strengthen my communication skills which came in handy for interviews.

Ways To Be More Proactive

Reach Out - Interested in a certain company? Message an apprentice to find out more about their experience. Many of them are eager to share their stories and advice, which can give you an edge with your application. Same applies to the Recruitment Teams, let them know of your interest in the apprentice programme, and they may even notify you about the timeline for applications, giving you a head start in your preparation.

Post your wins big and small as soon as you can – Initially posting on LinkedIn was somewhat awkward for me, but over time I realised the benefit. Throughout my application process, there were several occasions when I noticed companies looking at my profile. It’s a great way to connect with new people and opportunities whilst building your own digital CV.

Key Tips #1 – It’s fine if you don’t feel comfortable posting yet, take a look at the experience section of current apprentices in your field. This can help you find so many great initiatives and communities and give you an idea of the type of experiences to highlight in your applications.

Upskill Independently – The internet has loads of courses and training in virtually any field. Even during sixth form, taking on extra projects like the EPQ (Extended Project Qualification) allowed me to demonstrate enthusiasm and initiative, and served as a great talking point during my interviews. This doesn’t always have to be career-focused, exploring hobbies further can also help in developing soft skills such as communication and adaptability, which are just as, if not even more important skills to succeed.

Key Tips #2 – Aim to complete most of your upskilling before Year 13 (or application season) begins. This will allow you to refine your CV and cover letter beforehand, making it easier to focus on exams and applying as soon as they open, which also gives you an advantage. Staying organised from the start is key—keep track of applications in a spreadsheet so you can stay on top of everything!


Important To Note (A Word To Caution)

For many young people, particularly those from ethnic backgrounds and lower socio-economic difficulties, we put ourselves under tremendous pressure (especially my fellow eldest siblings) to excel in whatever we do. Whilst it’s important to have goals and aspirations, it’s easy to set unrealistic expectations for ourselves to achieve everything perfectly and all at once.

Unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way.

Not every post will have loads of likes, some applications will go nowhere, and sometimes unexpected things happens that’s okay as long as you’re learning and building upon your failures.

We need to make time for self-care and give ourselves permission to learn and grow at our own pace. Rejections and setbacks are part of the process.

I often remind myself of this: "You can have it all, just not all at once." (Oprah) Rejections can sting, but staying proactive and learning from each experience means you’ll move forward despite any setbacks.

To Conclude

Being proactive is essential to success but advancements does not always come instantly. Embrace the process, stay persistent and remember that you do not have to have everything figured out all at once. Take the first step, reach out for new opportunities, and let each experience guide you to where you need to be. 


Fiona Apaw

Degree Apprentice @ FDM | Girls Who Code & Kode With Klossy Alumni

You can find out more and connect with Fiona on LinkedIn.